If someone would have said to you before you were given your life, ‘you can have a life here on Earth on one condition. You cannot live it, have fun or enjoy each day, you must ONLY concentrate on your future and live to plan your future’ What would your reply have been?

‘I don’t think I’ll bother with that, that doesn’t sound like fun’

‘I will give that a miss, thanks all the same’

Yet each and every day of your waking life, this is all you ever do by choice?

You are in charge of your thoughts and have the choice to do this or not to do this each and every day, yet you still choose to do this? Maybe it’s time you started asking yourself why!

Each and every person is more than capable of healing themselves and able to maintain a healthy and happy condition. The way I’ll try and explain everything to you will hopefully be the easiest way for you to understand. Please don’t take offense at the way I’m saying things, it’s not intentional it’s just the way I can distinguish between myself and so called normal people on this planet, who I’ll refer to as the 9-5 kind of people. There are two ends of this scale one end, the negative end, which most of the population are and the 9-5 people and live by their own conditioned programmed responses. The other end people like myself the positive end who are not 9-5 kind of people and don't follow their conditioned programmed responses, but engage their mind in thoughts and actions.  There’s is NO INBETWEEN. Even though there is complete balance at my end of the scale, you can never be in the position where you are in the middle, you can’t possibly be undecided and half the time be negative and half the time be positive, it’s just not possible. For once you are at the positive end of the scale, you will not and would not ever want to return to the negative end. At least when you are at the negative end, there is always room for improvement and you can change to the other end of the scale, by simply re-programming your mind and thoughts.

If you remain at the negative end and choose not to change to positive, then there could be no one in your life, more destructive towards you, than you already are towards yourself. No one could ever hurt you more than you do yourself, no one could hate you more than you already do yourself. No one could be any more unforgiving than you already are yourself. So the next time you look somewhere else to place the blame, just remember, the faults you see in others, are usually the faults you find with yourself. What you hate about someone is really deep down what you hate about yourself or what you are lacking in your life. Please bear all this in mind the next time you try and blame others. Don’t be so harsh on yourself, we are our own worst critics in life and if you are anything like I used to be, no one could have ever been any harder on me than I was on myself. When I look back and look at things like that, is it any wonder I wasn’t loved and happy. How could anybody possibly love me when I didn’t even love myself? It’s all so simple and all really is self explanatory and always has a flip side to the coin. Just remember any time you are feeling down, you can always change that thought to something happy and positive to uplift you again. Whenever you are sad, you can change that negative thought into a happy one. Your body listens to every word and acts on every thought you have. Your body listens and carries out any suggestions and thoughts or feelings you may have, don’t ever forget that for one second.

Everything I’m saying and suggesting is all that we already know and already each have within us. You are each as intelligent as myself and you are each more than capable of each finding all the answers that I have found, if only you were to look hard enough within. It’s so sad that people really miss this point in life and never find Spiritual Enlightenment and karma. All this means is that you will be returning to earth until you have learnt all your lessons and found these, which are not difficult tasks, considering we already have the tools and only need to put a little practice into place to see and feel results. You should all start listening and paying attention to your body and loving your body and accepting yourself. The moment you remove all limits and boundaries, all negative thoughts, thinking patterns, feelings, emotions and actions from your life and be open, willing and allowing all positive to enter and place it there, is the moment your life changes forever. That is why I say there are no in-between the 9-5 people and myself. Now I know why I kept thinking I was never a 9-5 kind of girl in the first place. What I’m giving each and everyone of you is what I have been lucky enough to discover at 31 because I have looked hard enough within. You have all the tools you could ever want and need, you have all the knowledge and wisdom because you are the Universe and you are universal life force energy. You feel loved because you are love, intelligent because you are intelligence. Each positive and happy word in the dictionary, you and every one in the universe is more than capable of feeling; you only have to think it to feel it. The more you think it, the more you feel it. So don’t for one minute start blaming others for the way you feel, it is only yourself who is to blame. But then don’t be harsh on yourself either. It took me an awful lot of searching to find what I have, and now I have, there’s no going back. I have never been and could never be the 9-5 kind of person ever again. I know that when my life on earth is over, I have learnt all my lessons I have to learn already so when I move on to the spirit realm, which I’m already a big part of as we are all one to start with, I know I won’t be returning to earth. I will just be helping and healing like I have on earth. Like all my sprit guides, reiki helpers and personal guides have helped me. The other side so to speak is only a couple of feet above the earth plane to start with, so how can we not feel the people we have loved and lost in our life’s? How can they not be around us still, it’s impossible, you just need to be open and aware of the vibrations around you. We are all a vibration and universal life force energy every living entity in the planet, so the other side is never far and as near as you would like it to be and the people also.

All the people who have ever said no to you in your entire life, have made you the person that you are and have turned out to be. Whenever you have ever asked anyone to do something for you throughout your life and they have said no, you must thank each and every one of them because they have made you a stronger person because you have had to go within to find the answers. They made you use your initiative and use your mind to do everything you have asked others to do you have had to go back and do it for yourself. This is where the strength grows. I sometimes wonder how good one can feel. How happy and content someone could possibly be with nothing more in their life’s than their family, friend, pets and a roof over their head and food in their mouth. Any happier and I'd be a twin! It’s hard for a 9-5 person to being to even imagine living that way, but if and when you choose to you will always look back and wonder how you lived any other way. Even when I look back on the things I’ve said or done, or the way I’ve acted in my life, I wonder now how I ever managed to do it, because that wasn’t me. Luckily I’m not hard on myself anymore and have only learnt lessons and grown. I look at myself and everything what happened and everything that was said and where ever I have been and each and every person I have ever met, was all a big part in getting me to where I am right now in my life and I must thank each and every one of those people who helped me to achieve that along the way.

If you never took any risks in life, success would never be yours. Failures are only lessons we have to learn, we would never succeed or learn how to improve while we are on our path to success without them. Failure is only what you allow it to be. Once you remove the boundaries and limitations, nothing is ever the wrong way to do something, that’s not failure but there’s always room for improvement. In theory it’s an important lesson on the path to success and happiness. You can heal yourself and your life if you choose to, but you must first remove and negative and allow the process to happen. Want, is something we are led to believe we need and feel we must have. Need is a false hope/illusion we don’t seem to be able to live without. Take both of them away and you have far more than you could ever want and need within yourself, without wanting or needing for anything. We only want the things we allow ourselves to want and need. It’s a vicious circle really, for once we think we need something and want something the emphasis is placed on wanting or needing something. If you feel you don’t have either of these then you will always feel there is something missing in your life. Even though you may not have wanted or needed them in the first place, only put the thought there. Where as if you look at it from the other end of the scale, or once you have what it was you wanted or needed, you will look back and realise it was not something you wanted or needed, it was just an illusion, it never changed anything. You are in control of  all processes which you decide to think and feel each and every second of your life. These are merely conditioned programmed responses, which you generated. Don’t think any body for one second can change the way that you think, feel and act, the only way they could ever do that is if you allowed them to do so.(Unless you are in the healing circle and I'm doing that for you!)

For example, if someone is annoying you with something they continue to do, they don’t annoy themselves, the only person they annoy is you and they only reason this happens is because you allow it to. Don’t give anyone that power over you. The easiest way to look at this is, if you let all the negative and all the destructive thoughts and actions around you to go straight over your head, don’t even give it the attention in the first place, just let it go. Then you realise nothing could ever bother you no matter what anybody does or says to you. We are each all in control of the buttons we press each and every day in our life’s, just by simply placing the thoughts there in the first place. If there’s someone on the road driving slow in front of you or a learner driver and you can’t overtake and in a rush, how annoying is that. Or there’s a traffic jam and you need to be somewhere at a certain time. This is out of your control, there’s nothing what you can do in those situations, so just relax, use every negative and change it into a positive instead, its so easy and simple and will instantly make you feel better, instead of feelings annoyed, smile and enjoy the view, have some ‘Me’ time, in that hectic day of yours. Every negative you come across in your day, change it into a positive. Remove the 9-5 kind of life and the limitations and thoughts and feelings and use this as precious thinking time, which so little of us have in such hectic and busy life’s. Relax and take a breather from those hectic schedules we place upon ourselves each and every day of our working life’s.

Time, to me is the most precious thing. For without it we wouldn’t have thoughts, feelings, emotions, whether happy or sad, without time we would have nothing, life would not exist. Don't forget your health is everything, without you can do nothing in your life. Don’t forget while you are working too hard and maybe exhausting your body and not listening to the signals and signs it’s giving you to slow down. Nerves don’t break down, people choose to ignore the warning signs and therefore allow their body to break down. Start today and give your body the right conditions to enable it to heal itself. Just think for one second if your time was up tomorrow, would work miss you? All that time and effort you have put into work, perhaps even half your lifetime, would they miss you? No, you’d be as replaceable as the next person I hate to say. But the people who mean more to you than anything else in this world, who provide you with everything you want and need, (if you were the 9-5 person and can’t find all of these things in yourself), they provide everything for you, yet these are the one’s you give even less to than the people you work for. Even less of your time, less of your thoughts, less of your feelings and it really is sad to think when you look at it like that. How people could just go through their life’s working 9-5 each and every day, barely spending anytime or putting any effort into their family’s because they are so tired and exhausted from work, because bills need to be paid. Time, it costs nothing, absolutely nothing, to give anyone any of your time. You don’t have to put your hand into your pocket in order to spend time with someone, precious moments and happy times, you just have to be there. How can that be ever asking too much, yet each and every one of us is responsible for not putting this into action each and everyday? Half the time when we are there, our minds are elsewhere, worrying about work, worrying about targets and the mortgage being paid. It’s completely one vicious destructive circle and cycle. The sooner you are out of it, the happier you and everyone else in your life will be. Time is the more precious thing to each and every one of us, so please don’t waste it, don’t wish it away and don’t abuse it. For as freely as it was given to each and everyone of us, it can, without any notice be taken away at any moment. How would you feel living with the fact that you had barely given anybody you loved the most in your life any of your time? Because without time you would be giving nothing! How many hours of the week do you spend at work, miserable? How many hours quality time do you spend with your family and friends enjoying yourself with the one‘s you love the most? Or do you simply love the people at work more than you do the one’s at home, ask yourself that. Forget worrying about the targets or morgage. Worrying will NOT achieve them or get you any where, it's wasted energy. If you don’t love the people at work more than your family at home then don’t you think it’s time you started spending time with the people you do love and think the world of. Every second which passes us by, is the past, you can't re-live it, you can never have it back. Make the most of it.

Life really is time, because without time, no one in this universe would have a life, so make the most of it, appreciate ever second, appreciate ever second of it you have been lucky enough to have been given and use it wisely. Then you will become a much happier and healthier person, especially when you give yourself time. Time to think, time to improve your body and time to improve all those positive thoughts in your mind. It only takes a couple of seconds to tell yourself your are great, your are intelligent and beautiful, you are those things so give yourself a pat on the back. Then you realise you don’t need any of this from anybody else because you already give this all to yourself and then the world will seem a different place all together. Once you have found all of this, so feel free and start right now.

I think that’s one of the reasons I feel I help people the most, because I freely give my time to heal people, without recognition, reward or thanks. I can do this freely each and every day of my life, heal the universe and everyone and everything in it and it costs nothing more than my time. ITS AMAZING WHAT WE CAN EACH ACHIEVE WITH OUR TIME. EACH AND EVERY ONE OF YOU ARE AMAZING AND INTELLIGENT INDIVIDUALS, DON'T EVER FORGET THAT FOR ONE SECOND. Do you think with all the damage we have done to the planet we have seen the worst natural disasters yet? I believe otherwise. How can the universe possibly take everything we are giving it? The toxic waste, the pollution and chemicals etc etc etc more each day into the air, sea, earth and water. Then growing our foods in the same place which we are eating and slowly poisoning our bodies. If we don’t take notice now and change what we are each doing in order to stop and reverse the process then you have see nothing or experienced nothing so far of natural disasters. This is the universe’s way of telling us what we are doing to it and that it must stop. Please don’t ignore it any longer. Even if we were to start the reversal process right now, the natural disasters are going to continue, far beyond our life time. They will only shock, destroy and take even more innocent life’s from the earth and everything living in it's path, this planet and all the universe. For what we have seen and experienced so far is nothing to what we are about to see and experience. After all if someone was abusing and destructing you as much as we are each destructing the universe, do you think even if it wanted to it would allow this now we have poisoned beyond its natural and normal state? Man is the only person responsible or should I say irresponsible? For he has taken away all the conditions the universe and beyond needs to reverse the process of destruction and enable it to heal itself. For if your body was never given the right conditions by you, it would never be able to heal itself and this is the same with the universe. Not only do we destroy everything natural, we take it away. We take everything away that enables it to be self healing, and slowly but surely it can no longer heal itself without the conditions being put back there to allow this to happen.

There is no day without night and the only sure thing about life at this moment in time is that as the sun set’s each and every day, the night appears before our eyes. Don’t put the emphasis on life and death, put it on the here and now and living.

We can only give what we have, if we only have anger, destruction, blame, loneliness and hate, then that is all we are able to give back. We are each responsible for who we are and what we are, if we don’t like it then simply change it. You have to find self love and self acceptance before you are able to give back love and acceptance. If you cannot find love for yourself and acceptance for yourself, then how on earth are you going to be able to find it anywhere else or receive it from anyone else? It’s impossible, you can’t. But what you can do is start right now and change how you feel about yourself, and then the outside influences won’t affect you at all. How can we ever have world peace when we don’t even have peace within or peace of mind? How do we expect to be happy when we don’t allow ourselves to be? How can we ever find true love, when we hate ourselves so much? Do we expect other’s to be able to love us when we can’t even love ourselves? We have choices each and every day and are capable of changing anything we choose to. The universe has had its choices taken away by us and all the right conditions to enable it to heal itself. Therefore we must give ourselves what we need each day, to enable us to stop being so ignorant and give the universe back just the same as what we need.

Peace will always win over war and love will always win over hate, harmony will always win over destruction and violence, the sooner people realise this, then sooner it will be in place with our help. No one has ever won a war, fighting it with war, this is a never ending situation which only harbour’s more destruction and violence, in order to win. Where does winning get one? What is really gained from winning a war? Pride for the leaders? If we fight war with only love, after all isn’t that what every armed force is about? Fighting for queen and country? Yet all that has been removed the moment we are putting this into place. Does the queen want war? Does the country want more violence and destruction? For that is all that war brings with it. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to work that out. There is no answer to peace and there is no repercussion from fighting hate with love, for that will be the only way to STOP any of this. Unless people start to realise this, then the destruction, terrorism, violence will continue, because we are all responsible for giving it the power to and we are choosing to do just that. How could we ever know if world war all began with two neighbours fighting over something petty and it just grew from there. We will never know. But if we can't love our neighbours then how on earth do we expect world peace to exist?

Let’s just ask ourselves, do we want war in the world? Then why are we doing nothing to help change this. The fact is, that even an argument and all the hate and destruction can be won with love, for there is no answer to love. If we only use war, then war is all we will have and we will have given it the power to grow. If we only choose to fight with love, then only the love will grow and be given power. We only need to look at all the disease and illness in the world right now to realise what we are doing to our own bodies each and every waking moment. If we aren’t taking any notice or doing something about this, how on earth are we ever going to be in a position to help the universe? Don’t you see, we are what we think and allow ourselves to feel each day, is it any wonder we are so full of disease and illness, just take a look at your own thoughts. Yet we are all capable of healing ourselves, if only we were to give our bodies the right conditions to do this. Any disease all started with ONE negative thought, don’t forget that for one second and start to change it right now. Each and every flower grows every day, so beautiful, so freely, yet without any force whatsoever, only the right conditions. Start giving your body the right conditions to enable it to grow and blossom in the same way.

A life full of love, contains no hate

A life full of happiness has no room for sadness

In a life full of peace, there can be no war

See the joy and appreciate life, for then there can be no sadness

Remove all the destruction, hate, blame, anger and guilt from your life and watch it be replaced with only love, peace of mind, happiness, harmony and laughter

Remove the impossible and watch all the possibilities arrive, for anything is possible

Remove all limits and boundaries you place on your life and allow your life to begin

Stop listening to everything you have every been told in your life, unless it was good advice and choose to listen to yourself and use your own mind to decide

Don’t think for one second that something is not possible, for the moment you do, it never will be

We are what we think and if we don’t think it, we will never allow ourselves to be it

Don’t limit your life and accept what you believe you can’t do, if you have never once tried it, how do you even know that you can’t? A belief is something which you were given, so don’t take any notice of that, decide for yourself.

See the positive in EVERY negative and your life will never be the same again!

See the good in any bad

Whatever it is you are doing in your life right now, if you are unhappy, ask yourself why you are doing it? Have you been told to this or was it something you chose to do?

If you never question anything presented to you in your life, how do you ever expect to learn from it and have the answers you want? Start realising you have an intelligent mind and start to use it, instead of allowing others to make the decisions for you. Then no one else on this planet can ever be responsible for how you feel and what you think, you will always be in complete control of your actions and your life.

FATE IS SOMETHING WHICH HAPPENS TO EACH ONE OF US, ONLY WHEN WE ALLOW IT TO. YOU ARE THE ONE IN CONTROL OF YOUR OWN DESTINY, THE SOONER YOU REALISE THIS, THE HAPPIER YOU WILL BE AND YOUR LIFE WILL BE JUST THE WAY YOU WANT IT TO BE AND YOU WILL BE JUST THE PERSON YOU WANT TO BE!

An Hour

A man came home from work late, tired and irritated,  to find his 5-year-old son waiting for him at the door...

Son: "Daddy, may I ask you a question"
Daddy: "Yeah sure, what it is?"
Son: "Dad, how much do you make an hour?"
Daddy: "That's none of your business.

Why do you ask such a thing?" that man said angrily
Son: "I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?"

Daddy: "I make Rs. 500 an hour"
"Oh", the little boy replied, with his head down.

Looking up, he said,
"Dad, may I please borrow Rs. 300?"

The father was furious, "if the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or other nonsense, then march yourself to your room and go to bed.

Think why you are being so selfish.

I work hard everyday for such this childish behaviour"
The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door.

The man sat down and started getting even angrier about the little boy's questions.

How dare he ask such questions only to get some money?
After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down, and started to think:

"May be there was something he really needed to buy with that Rs 300 and he really didn't ask for money very often!"

The man went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door.
"Are you asleep, son?" he asked.

"No daddy, I'm awake," replied the boy.

"I've been thinking, may be I was too hard on you earlier", said the man.
"It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you.
Here's the Rs.300 you asked for"

The little boy sat straight up, smiling

"Oh thank you dad!"

He yelled.

Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled some crippled up notes.

The man, seeing that the boy already had money, started to get angry again.
The little boy slowly counted out his money, then looked up at his father.
"Why do you want money if you already had some?" the father grumbled.



"Because I didn't have enough, but now I do," the little boy replied.
"Daddy I have Rs. 500 now. Can I buy an hour of your time?
Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you"

MORAL:

It's just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life.We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our
hearts. If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days. But the family & friends we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives. And come to
think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than to our family.
An unwise investment indeed!